"Can I see your thighs? Can I see your
legs? Can I see your neck? Pag-ito sinabi ng boyfriend mo sayo, ito ang gagawin
mo. Kunin mo ang pitaka mo at kumuha ka ng 80 pesos. Papuntahin mo siya sa Mang
Inasal. Maraming thighs, breast, legs, at necks dun! unlimited rice pa! Oh come
on, girls, hindi kayo cheap! at kayo naman boys, hindi cheap ang mga
babae."
This was the statement of Pastor **** (I don't really know who he
is, ever since I was 16, I don't take into account the names of the pastors of
the churches of the places that I have live with. You see, I am a nomad. And it
is first time that I am staying in one particular place for almost four years
already. Perhaps, college is different.) His sermon on Sunday was the last
installment of the four-part series called 'The Love Difference'. What's that?
Don't ask me. I don't know either.
So there he went talking about love, lust,
and sex. Nah, I can no longer remember all the things that he said. He is so
loquacious, and his character was of a modern preacher. Very trendy. It was
really a nice discussion though. He cited two important points:
1) Fall
inlove by means of character not by emotion because your emotion will betray
you. Your heart is the greatest deceiver.
2) Marriage is not a chance,
it is a choice. You will only choose one person out of the millions out there.
That is already a big deal. Choose the person who will suit your temperament.
The one who is a good provider. The one who can be your companion at difficult
times, the one who will share with you the happiness, and at the same time, the
sorrows of being parents to your little monsters who will later on become
hard-headed adults. Parenthood is a tough job. Choose someone who can be your
best friend.
Pakakasalan ka tapos hindi ka rin naman pala kayang pakainin
tatlong beses isang araw, saan ang pag-ibig dun? --> I must absorbed this
one...